Selfless love..

is the hardest love to really give to another adult whom we want to be with. It is easier to give it to children, especially our own.Selfless love requires that all of our thoughts and decisions including the most minute ones are made with the benifit of the other person in mind. In most cases, there are always factors involved in our decisions including parents, children, employment, etc.In selfless love , nothing else matters but the welfare of the other person. This can be a scary thought because in a way they hold the food for our hunger. It isn't a question of want, but more of need. Selfless love becomes rare as self preservation becomes a number one instinct. Once we decide to love, we should drive forth like a river breaking through a dam and roar ahead confident in our ability to know we have chosen this special person whom to love. And the choice was ours, so why hold back. For parents and children will eventually go to their own lives, but those whom we choose to mate with and give of out outmost selflessness will walk with us hand in hand and breath in breath until death brings the physical barrier. A little baby fighting for its first gasps of life struggles and screams and cries but soon realizes the breath is what life is all about and soon lives content and happy as its struggles subside!